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TIS THE SEASON TO PROSPER: Smart Holiday Marketing To Rev Up Your Revenues

Sunday, June 22nd, 2008

By Denise Corcoran Why develop a marketing campaign just for the Thanksgiving to New Year period? Its simple. From now until January 1, the buyer mentality prevails. Buyers are ready to make purchases at any time, not just while shopping. Many businesses make as much as 50% of their revenues during this period . Study these marketing strategies and adapt them to your business. Below are my top 5 strategies. 1. PRODUCTS AND SERVICES FOR EVERY BUDGET To maximize revenues, smart retailers develop gift ideas to fit every budget — for example, Gifts Under $10, Under $50, Over $200, etc. How can you develop products or services to fit every budget in your business? 2. HOLIDAY PACKAGES Holiday packages are the HOT sellers right now! Why? Because they take the thinking out of buying. For example, pre-package gifts of soaps, body lotion and bath salts. How can you take the thinking out of buying your goods or services? How can you pre-package multiple items to make it easy for your customers? 3. BUNDLED PRODUCTS OR SERVICES Rather than sell single items, offer theme combos. For example, a holiday wellness gift package, including a massage, a facial and health products. Or a tax savings combo, including a book, tax software and a one hour consultation. How can you bundle complementary products and services to create a theme offering? 4. VOLUME DISCOUNTS Make your business the one-stop shop during the holidays and beyond. Give customers an incentive to purchase multiple products and services. For example, give 25% off for orders over $100, 30% off for orders over $200, etc. How can you capitalize on volume discounts to easily increase sales? 5. SOMETHING OF THE MONTH CLUB Create customer loyalty and longevity with this winning strategy. The options are endless. For example, CD of the month club, restaurant of the month club, etc. These programs work best when you give significant discounts in exchange for a long-term buying commitment of your products or services. What creative ways can you adapt this strategy to your business? ***************************************************** COACHS ACTION STEP: Adapt, Take Action & Multiply Your Marketing Results ***************************************************** Pick 1 of the 5 strategies that most resonates with you. Each strategy is easy to implement just in time for the holidays. Announce your new combo packages, volume discount, etc. in your Christmas or New Years greetings, newsletter or any other holiday communications to your clients and prospects. REMEMBER: Make it easy and rewarding for customers to buy from you and they will reward you with holiday sales. Denise Corcoran - CEO, The Empowered Business ™ - assists CEOs, executives and business owners in taking a quantum leap from the ordinary to extraordinary from unrealized dreams to mastering their destiny from slow growth to exponential results. A business & leadership coach, strategic consultant and Master NLP Practioner, Denise’s unique “inside out” approach provides deep transformation and lasting change in you, your organization and your results. Her latest e-book: “The Mindset of Greatness: 21 Principles to Becoming an Unstoppable Woman … Oprah Winfrey Style!” http://www.EmpoweredBusiness.com Subscribe to her monthly ezine - The Empowered Business ™ - and learn the legendary mindset, strategy and performance secrets of top business achievers. http://www.goldbar.net/go.php?id=7996&c=1738&ac=ezar Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Denise_Corcoran http://EzineArticles.com/?TIS-THE-SEASON-TO-PROSPER:–Smart-Holiday-Marketing-To-Rev-Up-Your-Revenues&id=362973 free paycheck programs asset based hard money lenders no credit check virginia short term loans instant cash flow

Getting Married - Be Sure to Eat

Thursday, June 19th, 2008

By Alex Daniels Maybe you’ve seen it before. You’re at a wedding and the couple is at the front, perhaps listening to the minister, priest, or judge speaking about the sanctity of marriage and getting ready to say their vows. Just at that moment, either the bride or the groom begins to sway, and before anyone has time to react they are on the floor. Naturally, all of you-know-what breaks loose, with the other party immediately saying (perhaps yelling) the unconscious person’s name while the wedding party mills about and someone yells for water. The bride or groom passing out during the ceremony is actually not as uncommon as you might think, and you might be surprised to discover it is the groom more often than the bride that succumbs to gravity’s pull. A combination of nerves, heat, and warm clothes are often blamed, but there is another common culprit: the person who passed out hadn’t eaten all day! What might cause someone to forget to eat? Many people do not realize, or perhaps forget how crowded the days leading up to the wedding are for the couple. There are a lot of last minute preparations that need to be taken care of, with a lot of running around to do. In addition, wedding butterflies may cause people to feel like if they eat, they will get sick. This is normal, but it is also something that must be overcome in order to avoid disaster. Holes in the stomach created by holes in the eating schedule! A lot of people don’t realize that most of a very busy day can pass without remembering to eat. Many couples will have their rehearsal dinner the day before the wedding, but after that, the couple might not eat for a full 24 hours. Eating after the dinner is unlikely, as the couple is usually already full and besides, who wants to do anything before the big day? The night is for sleeping. And when the big day arrives the next morning, many people feel too nervous to eat. The bride will also be extraordinarily busy on the morning of her wedding, and forgetting to eat is extremely easy. With pictures being taken right after the ceremony, it is unlikely that either the bride or the groom will have a moment to grab a bite until the reception dinner! Plan ahead. In order to avoid passing out or suffering one of the other symptoms of hunger on your wedding day, make sure that you have a plan so that you don’t forget to get something to eat. Grooms are not as busy the morning of the wedding as brides, and a good idea is to take out your best man, groomsmen, and your father and father-in-law for breakfast. This can be great guy’s time as well. Brides have a trickier time, because of the lengthy preparations in the busy morning. Still, you should make time to grab a muffin and some juice to get you going for the day. Couples might also want to think about having a fruit tray or meats and cheeses available for them and their bridal party at the ceremony venue. Try to avoid anything that is juicy or may leave any kind of stains on the wedding apparel for the pictures, and bring a toothbrush as well! Having butterflies in the days approaching your wedding is natural, but don’t let them trick you into not eating. The wedding day is very tiring in more ways than one, and the both of you will need al the fuel you can get to keep the day going and keep it special. Take some time out and make sure to eat! Alex consults for a gift shop offering cheap wedding favors and gifts for her. Alex is recently married. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Alex_Daniels http://EzineArticles.com/?Getting-Married—Be-Sure-to-Eat&id=394832 lap top no credit check bad credit unsecured personal loans fast easy loan payday check loans

Essense of Infidelity

Sunday, June 15th, 2008

By Susan Sheppard On one very popular web site there were 260 posts from both sexes commenting about forgiving and forgetting infidelities. I read every one of them. With one exception, the perception conveyed was that one party was an innocent victim of the others philandering. It seemed to me that everyone was looking at adultery as a cause of marital discord. From my perspective, there are only rare exceptions to the fact that adultery, cheating, or affairs are SYMPTOMS of long standing marital problems. The cause occurred possibly even before the marriage vows were uttered. Lets go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. You all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to a womans signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the womans appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by an affair? I think the predicament results from the general consensus of opinions and expectations generated by a marriage. In all of the posts that I read it seemed that “being married” automatically presupposed that fidelity is the most precious aspect of the marriage. It appears that everything that could go wrong would be tolerated, everything except infidelity. I do not support tolerating infidelity. What Im wondering is what are the reasons that people actually get married? Do they get married because they are in love? Want to have sex? Want exclusivity? Want emotional, financial, sexual security? Want to have children? It seems like the thing to do? Or do they get married because they have found someone with whom they are career compatible, financially balanced, sexually attracted, intellectually well-matched, culturally congenial, religiously aligned, madly in love, with whom they want to procreate and raise children according to mutually agreeable standards? Do all people get married for the same reasons? I dont think so. I believe that some people get married for love, some for lust, some for status, some for money, some for security, some for convenience, some to have children, some looking for parental guidance, some for business reasons etc. etc. And if that is true, why is it that everyone who gets married expects adherence to the same standards as far as fidelity is concerned? The expectation seems to be that everyone gets married for passionate, romantic love and fidelity is the highest value of marriage. I dont presume to have all the answers, but possibly some suggestions as to the seeds of infidelity. Lets start with a couple who declare that they are in love and want to commit to each other. They are starry eyed and the state of “in love” creates a certain blindness and denial especially when this person seems to be almost perfectly aligned with the important values you have designated to be essential in the person you are going to marry. So this person lies to you about something or breaks a promise to you, or does something that totally violates your ethics, but you love him/her and he/she is so perfect otherwise. Its just a small thing and you can certainly tolerate a little thing like that. After all, you are getting married and that means you can work it out. Love conquers all. Here is the problem. Love doesnt solve anything. People come to agreement or negotiate boundaries and decide to be together because they want to be together. They choose marriage. I think the rules of marriage and the boundaries that each couple wants to live by must be negotiated. Obviously each and every scenario cannot be discussed ahead of time, but the individual standards of each partner in each marriage must be decided prior to the vows. When a woman/man settles (that includes compromises, tolerates, sells out) on a value that is significant to her/him, the bond is compromised. It makes it okay to do it again, whatever “it” is. According to the Man/Woman Strategy that I subscribe to, women have the power in relationship and their job is to provide appetite, which challenges the man who loves her to produce results. The man who wants to please his woman will produce those results as long as she believes in him and respects him as the producer. The other component in this neat little package is the sex. Men will do anything for sex. Women love sex as much as men do; its just not socially acceptable for them to say so. Men get their pleasure from a womans pleasure and “most women lie to men about their satisfaction” which leads to the giant gap in the presumption that marriage presumes passionate, romantic love and fidelity are the highest values. Women on the whole are not able to maintain the level of energy and self esteem necessary to always validate for a man what sexually satisfies her. Thus the communication regarding sex gets distorted. Men, unless someone instructs them, can not be expected to know what areas of a womans body are responsive to erotic touch. Its different for every woman (man too). So heres what happens. Women get pregnant. Pregnancy creates enormous changes in a womans body and physiology, which at times do not make sex appealing. Women become mothers. Parenting, especially mothering is a 24-hour job, which includes massive sleep deprivation, and instincts, which consume even the most, prepared. Generally, both men and women have jobs, which consume time and energy. Women also feel responsible for the upkeep of the home. Not that men do not, but somehow for a woman five million years of homemaking has become instinctual. So what does this entire story mean? It means life gets in the way of relationship and unless some time and energy is devoted to the relationship as an entity, that state of “in love” that everyone marries into will disintegrate. There are exceptions, but generally speaking most people do not intend to cheat on their spouse after the wedding nor do they intentionally pursue an affair. So here is how an affair begins. One or the other partner is not getting his/her needs met for whatever reasons. That person encounters someone at work, or at a party, or in the neighborhood, who notices him/her and sees something that attracts. There is nothing like a flirtation to restore a sense of self-esteem. Initially, the married person resists but enjoys the attention. That person then goes home to his/her spouse and hints that he/she needs more attention. The spouse at home who assumes that because they are married, everything is great and there is always time for taking care of the spouse later, ignores the hint That, my friends, is the beginning of the affair. When one partner seeks emotional or physical or intellectual support from someone of the opposite sex outside of the marriage, the seeds have been sown. The marriage is taken for granted. The almighty wedding ring is supposed to be able to bind people to their vows automatically. This is the false presumption that leads us to the incorrigible statistic that 80% of marriages are affected by infidelity. Marriage doesnt work by itself. It takes two people who pay attention to each others needs. It takes two people who believe in each other and validate each other. It takes two people who want to love each other and who continually approve of each other which allows the vulnerability necessary to be honest about their personal needs. What should be done about reversing this destructive trend? Marriage encounters? Premarital counseling? Relationship coaching? Pre-marital coaching would be best. Determine if the person you are marrying meets your standards and that you are not just settling because he/she is almost what you want and you might not find anyone better. Second best would be to stop an affair before it happens. This could be accomplished by paying attention to your relationship and not taking anything for granted. Decreasing the number of affairs would probably make a difference in the divorce rate. Preventative would seem to be preferable, but some people need to get hit by a board before they wake up and realize they are in jeopardy. Ideas are welcome. What do you think are the cause and effect of infidelity? Web site: www.gettingwhatyouwant.com Buy my book www.HowToGetWhatYouWantFromYourManAnytime.com Enroll in an e-course www.RomanceReentry.com e-mail me at Susan@gettingwhatyouwant.comfor a free consultation “I help people who want sacred intimacy in a hot relationship, get what they want from each other so that they can experience more fun, more sex and less bickering!” Susan Sheppard GettingWhatYouWant.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Susan_Sheppard http://EzineArticles.com/?Essense-of-Infidelity&id=1453 multiple paycheck systems instant military payday loans fast no credit check loan paycheck stop social security withholding

Understanding Interactive Marketing Communication

Saturday, June 7th, 2008

By Paul Ashby Defining Interactive Marketing Communication Interaction can be defined simply as straightforward communication between two parties. Presently we are in danger of losing the real meaning of interaction, as we tend to focus discussions on the emerging technologies and neglect the communication process itself. With an understanding of the real meaning of Interactive Communication, existing media can be made interactive, and subsequently far more cost effective. Goodbye to the halcyon days of the TV advertisement of old? A new wave of technology is promising to transform the obsolete analogue technology of television into a two-way medium which allows the viewer to determine what is to be watched, and when. This could well create a situation where the consumers solicit information from the advertiser, rather than the advertiser soliciting the attention of the consumer. Viewers are becoming impatient with televisions linear flow and are increasingly using the limited opportunities available to them to avoid the intentions of advertisers and programme makers. Even though too many the remote control is a fairly recent development, 44% habitually use it to avoid advertisements. Television is an advertising medium, not a communications medium and, as television declines in the face of competition from the new media, conventional advertising will decline with it. In many ways, advertising is an outmoded concept, since media advertising is simply one means of communication with customers. In an environment in which the balance of power is shifting in favour of the consumer rather than the advertiser, manufacturers and service providers need to look at ways of replacing the monologue of advertising with a dialogue which can utilise a range of different relationship marketing techniques. Advertising has to modernise & change. The market place has changed. Newspapers and television have lost their exclusive hold on the advertiser, the number of print and electronic advertising channels has substantially increased, such as pre-printed booklets pushed through letterboxes, or hung on doorknobs, local cable TV and Direct Mail. Recent events have given advertising a permanently diminished role in the selling of goods and services. At the same time cynical consumers are wearying of the constant barrage of marketing messages. Theyre becoming less receptive of the blandishments of advertisements, and their loyalties to brands erode as they see more products as commodities distinguished only by price.Advertising ignores communication theory. As the mass media have matured, the behavioural dynamics of perception and interaction, which were not address by Advertising Agencies in the 70s and 80s, during the explosive growth of advertising have become critical to the redefinition of media and its role in marketing communication. With passive, one way, forms of advertising such as media displays or television advertising, there is a certainty of a degree of non-response. Lack of communication competence. Most Advertising Agencies lack the skills of communication, advertising messages are more carefully prepared than interpersonal communication and yet message comprehension tends to be lower. Advertisements are more carefully prepared because gatekeepers (those who prepare and send out messages) are more cautious about what they say to large audiences than they are to audiences of one or a few, they check their facts more carefully and they prepare their syntax and vocabulary more precisely. And yet, because their audience contributes much less feedback, the source cannot correct for any lapse or understanding, so people are more likely to misinterpret what they hear or read over the mass media. It is also important to note, of course that just because mediated messages are more carefully prepared, they are not necessarily more accurate. Gatekeepers have a way of looking at the world based on personal beliefs or motivations. This world view sometimes tends to make media messages inaccurate. Interactive Communication leads to a commitment to participate. However, with interactive marketing communication, there is a commitment to participate, which in turn leads to a set of possibilities, which are significantly different in how they affect the communication process, itself. The need for product information. Image advertising doesnt give the information needed to buy knowledge-driven products. Moreover communication results from an interaction in which two parties expect to give and take. Audience members must be able to give feedback. Media practitioners must be sensitive to the information contained in the feedback. This give and take can result on real understanding or real feedback. The need for Interactive Marketing Communication.Put simply, because there is a human desire for interaction. We have created a media society during the past 40 or 50 years where there is an extraordinary reduction in interaction because of the one-way and more passive form of information retrieval that exists. People desire to be taken account of, to affect change, learn and personalise their relationships with their environment. There are a phenomenal number of reasons, which cause people to interact, which go far beyond just giving them things. When people participate in interactive marketing communication they are told that their efforts and feedback are of positive help to the advertisers. Moreover, by participating, they then learn and understand the message from the advertiser, personalise their relationship with the advertiser and their products (or services). Consumers tend to filter out information they do not want to hear and this alters the effectiveness of advertising in quite a dramatic way. The purchasers decision is invariably a compromise and this leads to a certain amount of anxiety. The worry that perhaps the purchase decision was not the best or right one. In order to minimise this anxiety the purchaser seeks to reinforce his choice and begins to take more notice of his chosen products advertising. And, at the same time, the purchaser deliberately suppresses data, which might challenge his decision by ignoring the advertising of competitive brands. People are often loyal to a brand simply because they do not want to readdress a decision. The opportunity to screen out undesired data always exists when media advertisements have to stand on their own and fight for attention.Interactive Communication takes the consumer through the barrier of not wanting to address change; and this is the ultimate market the advertiser is after the people who use his competitors products. Now the consumer can say Yes, I will change my behaviour and I have a very good reason or series of reasons why, and have a well-informed opinion or image in mind. If someone goes into a product purchase decision with a very specific image of the product and its reason to exist and why they have decided those reasons are worth its purchase, the test in reality, the use of the product, will tend to confirm that premise, and therefore conversion will be enormously enhanced. Interactive Marketing Communication turns passive advertising into active advertising and actually alters behaviour during the communication and learning process. Interactive Marketing Communication increases sale.And theres more!It enhances relationships and dramatically improves consumer knowledge, understanding and loyalty.1. Strong Company or Brand Values.To be effective communication has to be single minded in choosing a specific proposition which by definition cannot appeal to all. Yet every product, service or retail outlet can offer several attractive benefits and in some cases these can be numerous. Interactive Communication presents consumers with a menu of powerful benefits, both rational and emotional, and asks them to choose the one which they find most relevant and appealing to them.This allows them: -a) Personalise their relationship with the communicator.b. To absorb and retain the majority or even all of those extra benefits while making their choice.c. Not one, but several, good reasons for buying the product or service. Equally it puts these benefits into context, educating consumers to understand just how important those benefits are to them, and positions the product or service as unique in satisfying all those needs.2. The emotional relationship.By asking consumers for their opinions rather than telling them, the company makes them feel special and involved in an unprecedented way. A company prepared to listen! This disarms consumers and produces a feeling of trust and thereby an emotional commitment to the company and its products, which cannot be, generated any other way.That emotional commitment enhances the more rational understanding of the Company or Brand Values discussed above and establishes an unprecedented, personal, relationship with the manufacturer/brand/retailer even amongst those who may have had no previous experience. 3. Consumer Feedback.Allowing consumers to interact with the brand by offering their opinions and views does more than create an emotional commitment; it allows large numbers of real people to express ideas in a way they have not had the facility to do before, to a company evidently prepared to listen and act.Consumers are seduced and this generates genuinely expressed observations on the strengths of the company as well as areas of opportunity for improvement or exploitation. It is, in effect, an enormous piece of qualitative research, but without consumers ability to vouchsafe real opinions being inhibited or guided by a researcher.Thus the combination of all these elements produces a deep understanding of the company and its brands and its role and value to the consumer; a greater level of involvement in an emotional commitment to the brand and an enhanced desire to buy it.Understanding Interactive Marketing Communication.With a better understanding of the nature of Interaction allows us then to give a more precise definition of the process, that is:With Interactive Marketing Communication: the reader/viewer is actively encouraged to take careful note of what is being taught him, learn rather than be taught the message, and then give tangible evidence that the lesson, in this case the advertising/marketing message, has been learnt. Interactive Marketing Communication ensures that the initial message receiver anticipates and then subsequently evidences a response using a predetermined mechanism. The Author pioneered interactive communication to the advertising and marketing communities some twenty-five years ago. The communication issues he addresses have been neglected during the explosive grown of advertising in the 60s, 70s and 80s, these are Cognitive Dissonance, Selective Retention and Selective Exposure. Would you like to discover the incredible results to be attained by using interactive communication? Well these are revealed for FREE at http://effectiveaccountablecommunication.blogspot.com or contact Paul directly on paul.ashby@yahoo.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Paul_Ashby http://EzineArticles.com/?Understanding-Interactive-Marketing-Communication&id=474115 mortgage no credit check payday cash loan private money mortgage lenders no credit check virginia online home equity loans

How To Pick Up the Gloves In Marriage and Fight Well - “Body Basics!”

Sunday, June 1st, 2008

By Jay Timms Call it a fight, call it a discussion, call it whatever you want. But lets be honest. The truth is that in every marriage there is fighting. No matter what you think, there is no such thing as the Cleavers or the Cosbys. That being said, if it happens in every marriage, why is it that there are some couples who seem to enter and exit the ring gracefully while others seem like there is never a break between rounds? The reason is that some people have learned the secrets behind fighting well and others are just swinging away hoping to connect. Whether you have been married 20 years or 20 minutes, learning to fight well can be the difference between being one of the most rewarding experiences of marriage and the most challenging. What fight do you want to fight? Lets clarify what was said previously. Everyone fights, but you may not actually know it. Even if you are in the relationship. There are basically 2 types of fighters; the Screamers and the Sweepers. What does a screamer sound like? This is the couple that nobody doubts is having problems. They are the ones that fight over the smallest things, and these small things turn into World War III. The fights turn brutal fast and leave deep wounds that are still raw as the next fight starts. They fight about the same thing over and over and never seem to solve a thing. How deep is the carpet you sweep under? These couples do have conflicts, but they keep it quiet. From the neighbors, from the family, and even from themselves. When a conflict arises, these people will quickly and effectively avoid the conflict and will work around it. When they come into therapy, generally these people will talk about conflicts that were never resolved 10 years ago that their partner didnt even know was a problem. Why do so many couples fight? Here is the problem. There really are 3 things working against you in this relationship. What family tree did you fall from?First is that neither one of you grew up in the same family. Maybe your family was the kind of family that was loud and outgoing, always doing things together, and constantly moving, whereas your partner came from a family where spending time together meant that they were in the same room together listening to the same clock ticking in the corner. It may not have been quite that extreme, but you get the point. Are you a fruit? Secondly, no two people in the world have had exactly the same experiences and thoughts as another person. Our experiences tend to form who we are and how we see life. Therefore, no two people in or out of a relationship will ever see their relationship exactly the same. It is like trying to compare apples to oranges. What planet are you on? Finally, there is one overlying theme that hangs over all of us in traditional relationships. One of us is male and the other is female. Period. Although we are not from different planets as you may have heard, society expects different things from us and we therefore have different goals and expectations about relationships and our roles in them. Knowing that there are such strong, lifelong habits and traits that we are dealing with, it should be Why do we lose control? When we fight, something interesting happens in our bodies. For most people, fighting isnt just an exchange of words. It is an emotional event that happens and is felt throughout our bodies. Emotion types There are two types of emotions. Primary and secondary. Secondary emotions are emotions that come after the main emotion occurs. In essence, it is a reaction to the reaction. When people come into a session, most often we hear She pissed me off, or He made me so mad. That is not the real emotion. That is the reaction to the emotion. The primary emotion is hurt, disappointment, or rejection. It is important that this distinction be made. Chemical Confusion Part of the problem when we fight is that too often we are dealing with the secondary emotions. We have felt something strongly like rejection or betrayal, and then our bodies automatically go into defensive mode. Our brains release chemicals that put us on alert and do not allow proper functioning of brain processing. What we need to realize is that people who work off of secondary emotions do not actually see reality because their brains cannot function properly with the chemicals that are being produced. Our natural response is to retaliate without thought. How can you fight effectively when your brain is not functioning? You cant! That is why you need to be able to see clearly enough to fight. This is just not natural! Why is it that fighting well is so difficult? Even the most practiced couple makes mistakes at times and seems to go backwards. What needs to be understood is that it is not natural to have the kind of conversations that will make marriages work. Our natural reaction is to fight or run. So what we are doing is trying go against what our animal instincts are telling us to do. What needs to happen is that we need to transcend that instinct and move to a higher level and do things that feel difficult and unnatural. Its hard, but it can be done using proven tools. Other Topics in this Series 1) Check Out Time2) Kitchen Sinking3) Sucker Punch4) Setting the Rulesand many more Topics discussed here are not intended to replace professional counselling. For further information, more articles like this and downloadable audio files, visit www.bestmarriages.com With over 40 years of combined experience in marriage, family, and relationship counselling, Jay, Lawrence, and Darren offer a unique and refreshing perspective on what makes marriages effective. 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